Should I go dinner with my ex-boyfriend?

Roti telur wrote:

Dr. Love,Should I have dinner with my ex-boyfriend tomorrow night?

He said he felt guilty not meeting me more often before and he wants to buy me dinner before I leave.I dunno how to decide. I am curious to know how have he been after 10years but I am definitely not in my best shape right now. When we dated, I was slim and young, now the opposite. I am afraid that he is doing better than me, eg he found a girlfriend better than me.

What should I do?

Dr. Love replied :

First of all, thank you for writing girl. Dr. Love always believe in keeping friendships especially those has given you happiness in your life before. Perhaps it maybe one of your sweetest memory you have been keeping in your heart. It may also shaped who you are today after you broke off from your ex. Whichever way, we learned from each other and we should treasure it.

Everyone in this planet will AGED! Let's face it, of course there were "plastic" solutions to these aging problems. What is more important is that you aged "Gracefully". I don't mean only focus on your body shape and look, but with mind that grew wiser and relax with things we are facing everyday. I would say just stay pleasant and relax will be the best. Everyone looks beautiful when we remain relax.

Your ex may also found a girl which is better than you, but again this depends on his needs and wants at this stage of his life. 10 years ago you may be his best, but now the other girl may be the one for him. Whichever way, as an ex you should be happy for him.

So you go Girl, be a CLASSY EX, and stop acting like a Low Class 'Ah Lian' (cheap and jealous girl).