Friday, July 01, 2005

July is here and your Dr Love is Listening :-)

Dear Boys and Girls,

I would like to encourage all of you out there to write if you need to be heard. Remember to remain ANONYMOUS ya!

Write to me doktorcinta@gmail.com

Or you can put your comment on this post!

Meanwhile, chin up, look straight and SMILLEEEEE :-)

11 Comments:

At 7/01/2005 12:17:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Doktor Love. In my past relationship, I always have a major hurdle: religion. The girls I pursue usually say that I am a nice guy and all but they prefer someone fron the same faith. Some people are unlucky in some other area but religion seems to be my bane in relationship. Don't ask me to convert so that I can be with the girl because to me religion is very personally and I am not like other guys who will convert just to be with the girls. Am I cursed? What can I do? Currently I am eyeing this particular girl but she has a religion and I am really worried that it will affect our relationship. Please advice.

 
At 7/01/2005 03:29:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Doctor Love, are you a male or female? You sound experienced. Are you married? Heeee heeeeeeeee

 
At 7/01/2005 03:35:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Doktor Love, among female, i would say I lack of those lemah-lembut, see see man man, sweet sweet, teh teh kind of ingredients loh ...Just tonight, friend's friend having problem, they have problems - be it relationships or anything, they will call the opposite sex or new friends - talk it out, pinjam lelaki punya shoulder to cry, or to express the whole thing. Whereas, I kind of find those action - unacceptable. (this is my view only - doesn't apply to anyone else - disclaimer sikit) ....So, I'm a weird girl - when I'm sad, I don't call people to talk, I prefer to go to cave actually, be alone, cry or sleep, or eat - I perform the IT in thing now - called SELF-HEALING - when I went thru my major heart-broken periods, my family didn't even noticed my pain....I just acted normal, and be strong and walked thru them. Now, I am thinking, may be I should learn to be 'teh teh' hor ?

 
At 7/01/2005 03:59:00 PM, Blogger Kiasu-Ching said...

Let's keep Dr. Love identity a secret .. that way you won't think I give a BIAS comment eh :-)

 
At 7/01/2005 04:47:00 PM, Blogger Ringgit Me said...

I know Dr Love's identity... question is, who are you, MGA? :P :P :P

 
At 7/02/2005 10:44:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Dr Love, it's great to have a place like this for me to complain, talk and a virtual shoulder to cry on ...

Today is my birthday, i didn't expect anything to happen or to celebrate. But it appears to be a sad birthday...


Firstly, no sms at all from my best friend..


Secondly, i'm still celebrating birthday alone :(. Though i've got a gift, an expensive gift from Mr Candle.. who went after me like crazy 1 year ago, but just would like to remain as friend for now.


I truly have a question that bothers me for the past 1 year, Mr Candle came strong, wanted me to be his girlfriend... and the moment i was melted to say yes, he said just wanna be my friend...


So, we've been friend for the past 1 year.. very close friend that we met 2-3 times a week for dinner, and i was suprised with the expensive birthday gift. But, he did not ask me out for dinner...


I had strong feeling for him that i forced myself to slow down, but tonite i'm really really sad that i guess would end my birthday with tears...


pls tell me what should i do next...why would a guy give an expensive gift to a girl who is just a normal friend ? Am i sad coz of Mr Candle or just scared of the lonely feeling ?

 
At 7/05/2005 06:12:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dr Love, I have something to share. Post away:

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. - Anonymous

 
At 7/06/2005 02:26:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dr Love,

What is love?

I was happy and felt blessed to finally met the true love of my life. After we have been together for 2 year, I am not very clear now on what is love? What do I love about him? Can our love last long?

Is there any love that is selfish? I am not sure if I have loved him for my own selfish reasons.

Please help.

Paper Cup

 
At 7/07/2005 12:57:00 PM, Blogger Ringgit Me said...

Doctor Love,

If love is between two people, does the family (brothers, sisters, father and mother) comes into play? It probably does not matter in a Caucasian couple because, let's face it, the westerners does not emphasize much on family values. It matters between an Asian couples. How would you advice lovers who may have difficult family members (of their significant others) to deal with?

 
At 7/17/2005 05:31:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Doktor Love, do you believe in fate? Does it come into play or is it really up to the individual (for example, up to the guy to make the move or up to the girl to put on make up, be on a diet, etc)?

And if you believe in fate, how does one improve fate to their favour?

 
At 7/20/2005 02:22:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Doktor Cinta... When I was in school, one of the most debated question that we asked each other is if it better to love your partner is it better to be loved? Some of my friends marry because the guy loves them a lot even though they don't love the man as much. Is this a healthy relationship in the long run?

 

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