What is True Love means!
Paper cup wrote :
Dr Love,
What is love?
I was happy and felt blessed to finally met the true love of my life. After we have been together for 2 year, I am not very clear now on what is love? What do I love about him? Can our love last long?
Is there any love that is selfish? I am not sure if I have loved him for my own selfish reasons.
Please help.
Paper Cup
Dr. Love wrote :
Paper cup, I am glad you finally found your True Love. Well for Dr. Love, True Love is finding a partner who is willing to share his or her life with you. Someone who is willing to accept your inner beauty. Share and give you the support during the good and bad times. Scold you when you did something wrong because he or she cares, and thank you when he or she feels appreciative.
It may sounds like a wishful thinking, but it is Possible and it can be done when the 2 of you remembered your vows to COMMIT. Let's face it, we will grow old and we will grow bored with our partner one day. Then, you question yourself if this is what you want? For people with the Right Mind, they should ask themselves these before they commit. Once committed, you should love the person UNCONDITIONALLY! It is not EASY. A Commitment is a LifeLong Task, it has its UPS and DOWNS, but nevertheless it is the MOST Beautiful LIFE Experience which we should not MISSED in our lifetime.
If you are feeling bored, you are just LOST at this moment in life, but it does not means you had Commited a Mistake. If the 2 party is still committed, you don't have to say I LOVE YOU to each other everyday. Just being there itself or Your PRESENCE itself, is all you need. If you had an Argument, COPE with it, but don't say any Hurtful words when you don't even mean it. (WARNING - it leave a BAD Mark in your mind forever - Dr Love prohibit this to all PATIENCE)
So Paper Cup, I believe when we found our true love, we need to ACCEPT each other DIFFERENCES. You should be GLAD because somebody LOVE you today! So ENJOY IT! Take one step a time. I wish you are continually blessed with your partner's LOVE. Being SELFISH is one thing, but if your PARTNER willing to give in his or her all to your selfishness, then I see it as a COMMITMENT.
For Dr Love, there is no MR or MISS IDEAL out there, because they are BORING :-)
posted by Kiasu-Ching @ 4:14 PM
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7 Comments:
Doktor Love , who are you ? Judging from the lovely messages you put up here....wow - u should be a 'hotdog' leh - hotdog i mean laku (hotcakes for girl) :P
Seriously, every couple relationship ideally should work this way :) .....it is a learning process.
Paper Cup,
'Love is a verb' - park aside selfishness, put in sweet thoughts, effort to grow this wonderful relationship, Love needs to be ignite on and off :)
I think I'm in love with you Dr Love... :P
Beautiful messages...
Oh dear, I Dr Love is flattered. Well let's keep our relationship professional eh ;-)
Are you married?
Dr. Love,
Thanks for your advice. Love is truely an amazing thing. I will enjoy and take things slowly.
Paper Cup,
It is your luck to meet your true love, it is your hard work to keep your true love.
Someone I know, an executive of a MNC and has 200 people reporting to him told me that keeping his marriage is harder than keeping his job. He has been married for 34 years to the same woman.
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