XBOX versus GF - who will win?

MGS wrote :

Hi Doktor,

Long time no see.. are you still in business? I am troubled by my bf. I think he does not love me anymore. He loves his hobby - playing video games on XBOX - more than he wanted to spend time with me. He's not listening to me when I talk. Every where we go are video games shop to buy games for himself. We hardly ever go out to shop for my own stuff. What should I do?

Doktor replied :

Hi MGS

Sorry for not replying earlier. I thought I was out of business, many cobweb around my PC now! hehehe

Anyway, yes the new generations of bf is getting out of hand. They rather drive a car or kill somebody in front of their PC! And it can be rather cold treatment from your bf when he's obssessed with his games!

Well there is 2 things you can do - if you CANNOT win XBOX, JOIN him! Choose a game you both like and play together! Eat together in front of the PC !

Or, you can tell him in advance set up a special date. I think these kind of bf you cannot do things spontaneous. You need to tell him what you want to do tis coming saturday for example, and get him to commit. Tell him that period he has to be away from his beloved PC for a little while.

Well let me know how it goes. Take care for now.

Your long lost doctor!