Do you believe in FATE?
Anonymous wrote :
Doktor Love, do you believe in fate? Does it come into play or is it really up to the individual (for example, up to the guy to make the move or up to the girl to put on make up, be on a diet, etc)?
And if you believe in fate, how does one improve fate to their favour?
Dr. Love replied :
Hi Anonymous, thanks for your email. Hmm fate, usually for the superstitious individual wil believes in fate. Anyhow, I will attempt to give you my version of fate :-P
Okie Dokie! Some of us, who are still single always sat there and ponder why the RIGHT ONE has not shown up yet. Does FATE play a role in it? However, there is no scientific explanation to this eh!
From my humble experiences, I believe we should always analyse the REASONS for not meeting MR or MRS RIGHT. We always have this ideal person in our mind, however they seems to be so out of REACH! We are like a headless chicken looking for a match. However, have you thought of improving yourself to increase the chances? (Again not suggesting to alter your face ya! ) Instead of banking on FATE, we should be OPTIMISTIC and Work out a REACHABLE PLAN. You mentioned make up and go on diet, it may be a good way to do, however, just make sure you are aware of your limit.
We all learn from mistakes, from there we learn to be wiser, and we will know eventually exactly what we want. Be confident and adopt a Healthy lifestyle. One day, you will be NOTICED. Generally people with Great Personality, Comfortable to be with and Confident may attract the RIGHT BEES or FLOWERS out there. To others they may view your success as a FATE. But believing in FATE alone may not increase your chances to meet Mr or Mrs Right, it takes a RIGHT and POSITIVE MINDSET.
HNVN
posted by Kiasu-Ching @ 9:00 AM
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7 Comments:
Doktor Cinta, thanks for your response. I personally believe that Fate plays a major role in a relationship. I'd say it plays perhaps a 70% role in match making two people. Fate plays a role in getting two people to meet or perhaps getting two of them to like each other. But Fate's job ends there. How two people continues from there onwards depends on self.. that's where the on diet and keeping healthy and positive mentality comes into play.
So, Fate still plays an important role. So, how can one improves fate? If fate really decides not to give the person a partner, then what? After all, there are people in the world who did not have a partner.
Dear Anonymous, wow you are really responding fast eh ;-)
Well the word FATE itself means 'the development of events outside a person's control, regarded as predetermined by a supernatural power'
Hence, this is something beyond our control? Why not focus in something you can do about it.
I always encourage everyone to be confident, eventhough they have not met their match. This is because probability of attracting the right person and could accept you is higher. Follow the flows :-)
FATE is like LUCK, LUCK=time meets opportunity. It happen only once for any occurance, usually doesn't repeat itself. Comes and goes without you knowing it. If it does repeat itself, then, it's really a blessing. Eg. you met and fell inlove but never got together, then, you meet the same person again and this time, both ended up together.
Be sincere, nice, open minded. I think these can increase the success rate.
Be patient... It took me a long time before I met my girl and she's worth the wait!
Ringgit,
You were looking around and she came and you met her right? Or, you just waited and waited?
I have a friend, who really waits, waits, when meet ppl, the only phrase after the meet, is "no feel, no chemistry", then doesn't go looking. Prefers to really wait for "opportunity" come knocking at the door. Then, will say "no fate"
I was looking.. but not as hard as Mr TS is.. LOL! Even if I were looking, she didn't come along until much later. Now I am a happy man. I found one of the greatest girl ever. I am very lucky!
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