Mrs Freedom - Case Study
Hello all my patients out there! It has been quiet for the last few days and it's the beginning of August. One fan wrote to me to ask what happened. I guess it must be a busy week for everyone, hence no time to worry about their love problems! But of course, Dr. Love hopes everyone is settling fine with their loved ones. If you have questions, you know where to find me ya :-)
OK I had decided to post another case study. The last case study with Mr. TS was rather interesting. Thanks for all the comments. I had contacted my source Anti-Ringgit, and found Mr. TS has not change a bit after reading all the comments. He had recently joined a gym hoping to meet more potential. God bless Mr. TS, I hope he will come to realize his immaturity - Sorry Mr. TS but it is the fact ;-P
OK new case study goes like this...
Mrs. Freedom got married early this year. She was very happy and the couple happily settled into a new home. They love each other very much. I am very happy for them.
Mrs. Freedom is a rather quiet person especially to strangers. She rather spends time with her loved ones at home, counting her assets or does things together with Mr. Freedom. Meanwhile, Mr. Freedom is very much an outdoor person, outgoing, loves meeting and making new friends. He loves musical and theater show (which Mrs. Freedom does not know how to appreciate) and always asks Mrs. Freedom to go with him.
One day, Mrs. Freedom felt lost as she found that she lives a different life than Mr. Freedom. While she love to spend time with her husband doing something together, she does not quite enjoy her husband hobbies especially those related to musical or theater. She also finds that she does not enjoy socializing with Mr. Freedom's co-workers and friends. However, knowing Mr. Freedom's choices, she is accommodating Mr. Freedom to ensure the hubby is happy!
Mrs. Freedom is getting confused on this matter now. She wasn't sure giving up her personal preferences will be a solution in this relationship.
Should she give in or should she speak up? What should Mrs. Freedom do?
What say you? ;-)
posted by Kiasu-Ching @ 3:27 PM
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10 Comments:
People say 'kar kai chui kai'... LOL!
Doctor L, I am so happy to see you back. I thought you have abandoned your site or something happened to you.
As to this case study, well, Mrs Freedom should be happy that she has found her Mr Right. It is difficult to find someone you truly love. Let Mr Freedom do what he enjoys. You don't have to accompany him all the time. I am sure you have your own things to do right? Sometimes having your own space is important in a relationship. I wish I have problem like Mrs Freedom. It is a good problem to have. Good luck to you, Mrs F.
Isn't marriage about compromise but of course one should not compromise too much until one's life no longer exist. Maybe she should talk to her husband.. create a new hobby or interest which is of interest to the both of them? And like MGA said.. probably good idea for her to have her own space once a while but maybe both could find 1 common interest / hobby to do together - you know like keep the link there?!
Hello MGA, thanks for commenting. Don't worry, if I ever abandon this site I will make an announcement to all my dear patients. For now, Doctor Love is not retiring yet ;-)
I think Mrs F lacks of sense of security. She does not feel comfortable to have her own life or let her husband to have his own. Relationship is like flying kite, sometimes you let go, sometime you pull.
Paper cup, how have you been? Have not seen you for a while!
Anyway, nice analogy! Like flying kite .... ;-)
Sounded like a friend of mine. LOL!!
they shud spend time doing things together. If mr F wanna go out for theatre, mrs F can learn to appreciate. for a change, Mrs F can tell MR F "why not we stay home today so we can spend some time together? can we do that today?" give and take lor...or, just go for a walk in the park, some peaceful quiet area, since he's an outdoor person..so, it's a win-win. after all, it's still peaceful and quiet.
Mrs. Freedom loves him husband very much, this is why she has this dilemma. I think it takes time to grow the chemistry for two people to be completely comfortable with each other. I am sure one day Mrs. Freedom will adjust well on how to live with her husband happily.
Dr Love, why do women like flowers so much?
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